Douglas Cornel Miller
Nov 22, 1947 ~ Aug 17, 2025
Late of Lynbrook
Formally of Calcutta, India
Devoted husband of Shirley
Loving father to Charlotte, Mark, Nicki and Julie
Loved father-in-law and Grandfather
Safely in the hands of the Lord
The Funeral Service for Douglas will be held in
The Cirrus Reflection Space, Bunurong Memorial Park,
790 Frankston-Dandenong Rd, Dandenong South on
Wednesday 27th August 2025 commencing at 2.30pm.
Private Cremation to follow.
For those unable to attend,
you may watch the service via the following link;
In lieu of flowers, donation can be made online to either:
The Black Dog Institute (Mental Health)
https://donate.blackdoginstitute.org.au/
Or The Cancer Council
https://www.cancer.org.au/get-involved/donate-to-cancer-council/in-memoriam
37 Tributes
Nicki (Nic) Miller
To My Dad
I still can’t believe you’re no longer here. I will no longer hear you say, “Hi Darling” when I walk in the door. But I will forever remember the last words you said to me, “Nic, I’m just going to go lie down.”
The house feels so different without you in it -quieter, emptier. You always kept to yourself, but I always felt your presence, steady and reassuring. Now, even though you’re no longer physically with us, your love surrounds us in every corner.
I miss you deeply. I find comfort in knowing you’re safe now, cared for in heaven, watching over us with that gentle, caring smile.
I love you so much, Dad.
Bernadette Barlow
Dad’s funeral was a beautiful celebration of his time with us. Now he has gone to bloom on the other side.x
Una hill
My sincere condolences to the family and all his loved one’s
May his soul rest in peace in the palm of the Heavenly Father.
Elisa Ann Wu
A Tribute to My Uncle and loving Godfather
Today, I honor the memory of a man who meant so much to me — my uncle, whose sudden passing has left a space in my live that words can barely describe.
He was more than just family — he was a source of strength, wisdom, and warmth. Whether through his stories, his laughter, or his quiet support, he had a way of making me feel seen and cared for. His presence brought comfort, and his absence is deeply felt.
What hurts the most is how sudden it all was — no time for goodbyes, no final words. But even though he’s gone, the memories he gave me, the love he shared, and the lessons he taught will stay with me.
Uncle, thank you for everything. You may be gone from my sight, but never from my heart. I will carry your spirit with me in my actions, my stories, and your love for me.
Rest in Peace
will miss you so much
Till we meet again 🫰❤️
Joey
Uncle Dougie , you were ahead of your time embracing Lip Sync Battle long before it was a thing! Remembering the days when Jerry Lee Lewis “Great Balls of Fire” was on the record player and you were lip synching while playing the keyboard. The cousins in the background as your backup singers/dancers and that signature laugh from Aunty Shirl as we all enjoyed the evening more so because of your “life of the party energy”. Ill never forget you showing me my first magic trick as I was so intrigued on how you could make your opal ring change colour. Those immortal words with a serious face that I blindly trusted “Joey,pull my finger”…… 🤣🤣what a legacy! Love you and sending my love to all xx❤️
Sam Italia
Douglas thank you for welcoming into your family . You always made me feel part of the family whenever we met . I enjoyed our conversation at the family dinner on Saturday nights and talking about how you went on the horses that day . You will be missed
Ann and Jack Donnelly
So sorry for your loss, Douglas was a very quiet man, with a genuine smile, A devoted family man. That’s how I remember him. R.I.P, Douglas.
Julie Miller
To My First Love—My Dad
Words cannot express the void in my heart.
I saw you just that morning after Jayden’s soccer game. As always, you jumped up the moment you heard us open the door, your voice filled with joy: “Hello Jayden, how was soccer today? Did you score a goal?”
I walked in, greeted you with a gentle kiss like I always did. I never imagined that would be the last time.
The last kiss. The last time I’d hear you say, “Hello, darling.”
I am forever grateful for everything you taught me. Your guidance always led me down the right path. Your unwavering support gave me strength, and your love for Jayden was second to none.
You made us both feel cherished—with your gentle words, warm hugs, and endless affection.
I will miss you forever, Dad. Jayden will miss his Dada.
But we will never forget you. I promise to carry your legacy forward—to keep telling Jayden stories about your mischief, our trips to Sydney and Perth, and all the laughter we shared in between.
I miss you today, yesterday, and tomorrow and all the days since you feel asleep; — I will miss you for the rest of my life.
Until we meet again, Dad. With and abundance if Love, Light, Hugs and Kisses, from your little girl, Julie.
I will love you Forever & Always.
Charlotte Miller
My darling Dad,
I can’t believe you are no longer with us. My heart is broken, and my world feels empty without you.
I already miss the simple things – like walking through the door and asking, “Where’s Dad?”
And when I found you, our greeting was always the same: “Hi Dad.” – “Hello darling.” – followed by a tight hug and a gentle kiss.
I am so grateful that we spent your last day together with Mum – sharing lunch and a little flutter at the local club.
When I brought you home and we said goodbye, I never knew it would be our last hug, our last kiss, your last “bye darling” and my last “see you Pa.”
I have missed you every single day since, and I will miss you for the rest of my life.
I love you so deeply, Dad and I will love you always.
Until we meet again.
Rest peacefully now, Dad.
Shireen and Ernie Rebeiro
So sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with each one of you. Uncle was such a good quiet soul, no doubt about it. May uncle’s soul rest in peace for eternity 🙏
Love you uncle.
Michele and Mark Oliver
To a dear man and dear friend Douglas.
We encounter people in our lives that leave a footprint for the better in our lives and you will always be one of them.
A beautiful soul, so loyal, caring and kind. You will always live in our hearts and mind.
Rest in peace until we meet again.
Debra D'Monte
Dear Shirley and family,
Our deepest condolences to each of you as you come to terms with the passing of your loved one. May he find eternal rest in his Heavenly abode and RIP.
Our thoughts and prayers are for you to stay strong and hold on to the many loving memories that will always be with you.
In sympathy,
Lincoln and Debra
Vernon Williams
Douglas, I shall miss the chats we would have over a cuppa when ever Blossom and myself came across,
In 1984 (41 years ago) driving from Sydney to Melbourne post midnight, I closed my eyes for a fleeting moment and ran off the road exit the Hume highway onto the gravel with the Car about to roll over an embankment, when you shouted out loudly to me which awoke me and instantly and I had the presence of mind to turn the steering wheel fully to the right to avoid a roll over and crash into the base of this huge tree staring at us….. Thanks to You we survived to tell a story that we seldom discussed over the years as it was a traumatising incident for us but you were strong and held your composure and drove thereafter all the way to Melbourne non stop
Blossom and myself will miss you till we meet again.
Scott Burnett
Douglas,
Thank you for being such a wonderful grandfather to Ashleigh, and for welcoming me so warmly into your life. Your gentle spirit and down to earth nature were qualities I truly admired, and they left a lasting impression on me.
I’ll always remember the simple yet special moments like the time you gave me that tip for the horse named “What About Scotty” or how you gifted me miniature bottles of scotch for my growing collection. It’s memories like that which will stay with me forever.
Thank you for being such an amazing person. You touched the lives of those around you in quiet but meaningful ways, and you will be deeply missed. Rest In Peace
Noreen
Douglas you lived a life full of love, kindness and joy. You were loved beyond words. Will miss you. Rest in Peace.
Ashleigh Burnett
Dear Dada
Words cannot capture the thoughts and emotions that we have all felt this past week.
In the simplest way, the world no longer makes sense without you in it. In our family, there is now stillness and silence that we did not prepare for.
I wish I could tell you ‘I love you’ one last time. It hurts knowing those three words have now been replaced with ‘I miss you’ and ‘come back, please.’
Though I can no longer see you, I know I still carry you in my heart and hold tight our shared memories, like the advice you would give me before my runs and our Christmas Dart game.
Our family have gained a Guardian Angel in you.
Thank you for everything, Dada.
Love always, your Granddaughter
Ashleigh x
Loraine
Douglas you left us so suddenly. You may have left for your heavenly abode but your spirit lives on in your beautiful family. I remember very fondly the long chats my Dad and I used to have with you. Your legacy of warmth and compassion will always be remembered. Rest in peace 🙏
Mary Paull
To my dearest Brother – Duggie
The shock of your passing still grips my heart, but your memory soothes the pain. As your sister, I’ll keep your spirit alive through my love and laughter. Rest in peace, my dearest brother; may the heavens embrace you warmly. Now your soul has found peace, but my heart still aches for you. May the stars light your path as you rest in eternal peace. Love you forever – Your Loving sister Mary
Mandy Fitzgerald
Dear Uncle Douglas, we may never have met but my darling Mum Alma, your older sister, loved you very much. So happy you reached out this summer and that Penne and I were able to meet up in the UK with cousin Charlotte. She shared such lovely stories of you and the wonderful family you created in India & Australia. Although over 10,000 miles away, we bonded over FB messenger (thank you internet). Your love and goodness shone through every message. Little did we know you would be gone only a few weeks later. Thank you for your gift of love & family. I shall remember your kind soul forever. x Mandy
Bernadette Barlow
Doug you are a gentleman to the very letters of the word and the honour that envisages its meaning . You and Shirley were dearly loved and respected by my mum, Dulcie, and I am sure she is going to rope you in for a game of cards when you meet her. I have heard my mum speak highly of you and Shirley which has warranted my respect for you.
I cant begin to understand the pain and loss that
Shirley and your children will endure as you demonstrated “the family ” as long as I can remember from forty year ago. You presence will be missed by us all as you were a gift to humanity.
God bless you Doug and tell God to sprinkle his blessing on us all.
With much love to you and your family
Bernadette & Errol Barlow
Bernadette Barlow
Rest in peace
Felicity Paull
Dearest Uncle Dougie. Rest in peace. Safe in the arms of Jesus. Love from your Nephew- Clifford and family 🙏💔🙏
Junior & Debbie Abraham
To dearest Dougie, we are still finding it difficult to accept that you are no more. You were a beautiful husband, brother in law & father. We will never forget the amazing surprise you gave us by visiting us in India in the year 2005. We were thrilled to have you with us. We enjoyed our time together here in Kolkata. Here’s to all of life’s moments we got to cherish together even though they were brief, but they will always be unforgettable.
We take refuge in knowing that you are now in a better place, all at peace.
Fly high dearest brother in law, till we meet again. Safe in the arms of our Dear Lord.
Rest in eternal peace.
Barbara reid
Shirley and family my prayers and thoughts are with you all at this sad time keep your chin up remember the good times .Rest in peace Dougie Barbara Reid and family.
Angela Williams
Uncle Dougie, I will always remember your resilience, strength and quiet demeanour, which will be apart of your long lasting legacy. I’ll also never forget your love for bright coloured clothing and fancy socks haha! ❤️
Jodie Hay
My heart felt condolences to Mark and all of your beautiful family on the passing of your wonderful father, Douglas.
Sending you love as you navigate this very difficult time.
❤️
Carol Ann D'Souza Jamir
Dearest Aunt Shirley, Charlotte, Mark, Nicki and Julie. I know your grief is insurmountable. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for you.
I remember Uncle Douglas and Aunt Shirley in Calcutta. Both Aunt and Uncle along with Charlotte and Mark would never fail to visit my grandmother Vera who was Uncle Doug’s Aunt. After the family migrated to Australia, Uncle Doug kept in touch through letters and Christmas cards.
Every morning we would send each other a Good Morning message. I was extremely saddened to receive a message from uncle’s youngest daughter Julie informing me of uncle’s passing.
Rest in peace Uncle Douglas. You truly were a wonderful person, and I pray that God will reward you in Heaven.
Aunt Shirley, Charlotte, Mark, Nicki and Julie may the love and memories you shared bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Glenn Jackson
Dearest Shirley and family
We are so deeply sorry for your loss and wish you peace and healing.
Doug was such a wonderful man, his warmth and kindness will always be remembered in our hearts.
Glenn, Ann and family.
Keith Peter harris
What a gentleman never harmed anyone never spoke ill of anyone just loved his family n friends n I remember Doug how you gave me advice how to have a good bet on the races Anne n kids n self will surely miss you may you rip Doug hugs n god bless n please pray for all of us
Stephanie
Dada, life just isn’t the same without you here. Your infectious smile, cheeky giggle, and the way you’d greet me with “hello darling” followed by a big tight hug will stay with me forever.
Thank you for always listening to my stories, and for sharing yours in return – especially your City to Surf tales. I’ll never forget how you used to sneak Ashleigh and me pocket money every Saturday without Nana or Mum noticing. Those are the little moments I’ll cherish for life.
I love you, I miss you, always.
Brett
Douglas thank you for welcoming me into your family. Our time was short but I’ll always you as sweet man, softly spoken and intelligent.
May you rest in peace
Kyle Sarthak Wu
Dear Uncle Dougie,
Though our time together was brief, it felt like we had known you much longer. Your warmth, gentleness, and the stories you shared , even our occasional WhatsApp chats – are memories I will always hold so dear and close to me.
Rest peacefully, Uncle. When we meet again, we’ll run those 14kms together under 50 minutes.
Lots & Lots of Love,
Yashika & Kyle
Mark
Today we gather to say goodbye to my dad, but also to honour and celebrate his life.
Dad was many things to many people, a husband, a brother, a friend, but to me, he was simply my dad. The one who taught me the meaning of hard work, of doing the right thing, and of looking after the people you love.
He wasn’t a man of fuss or fanfare, but his actions spoke louder than any words could. Whether it was lending a hand, sharing a laugh, or just being there when you needed him, Dad gave generously of himself without ever expecting anything in return.
I will miss his wisdom, his humour, and his quiet strength. Most of all, I will miss just being able to sit with him, talk with him, and know he was there.
Though it hurts to say goodbye, I take comfort in knowing that his love, his lessons, and his examples will stay with me always. His life lives on in all of us who loved him.
Thank you Dad for everything. You’ll never be forgotten. Rest in peace. I love you.
Penne Cecil Hutton
We are so sorry for your loss. Condolences to all the family.
I was so happy to have corresponded with Uncle Douglas and to have met Charlotte when she was in England. Mum would have been happy that we met one of her little brother’s family.
Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord and may perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. Amen.
Sammy
To my dearest Uncle. You truly were so special and whenever your name was mentioned I had a big smile and warm heart. So kind, compassionate, loving and caring. Always thinking of others so selflessly.
My fondest memories are of growing up at Burwood, family gatherings at zbexley anmd our visits to Brighton beach. You would throw me up in the air and have me in fits of laughter. You are leaving a large hole in your family’s hearts but we take comfort knowing you are reunited with your loving parents, my Dad, Aunty Alma, Uncle Tony and Aunty Anne free from any pain- jiving, singing and laughing. Rest in Peace Uncle xx
Julie Miller
Dear Dad,
I cannot believe it has been a year since you closed your eyes. A year since we saw you leave home for the last time. A year ago I heard your voice and hugged you not knowing it would be the last. I miss you every day and will for the rest of my life. You will always be a part of me and with me as I continue to move forward without you physically being here with us. I love you Dad. Rest in Peace in God’s care.
Nicki Miller
Dad ~ the other day, we visited you as a family on the first anniversary of your passing into Gods care. Even to this day, we celebrate every moment together as a family unit. We live every day, ‘one day at a time’, knowing that you watch over us.
Mum and I visit every weekend, with a colourful bunch of flowers and we always smile, thinking about what you’d be telling us. “You don’t need to visit every week, Darling. Once is enough. You can go shopping.”
I miss you and love you very much, and wish you were here so I can tell you in person.
Love you Dad.
17.08.2026