Priyankara Darshani Wickramasinghe
28/12/1956 – 29/05/2020
Beloved wife of late Dr Mahinda Gunatillake, loving mother of Varuna Gunatillake & Dr Tilini Gunatillake (Pinky),
mother in law of Sumiko Ranjitkumar, loving daughter of late Piyal & Viola Wickramasinghe, daughter in law of Professor PDP Gunatillake
& Ruby Senanayake, sister of Preethi Perera and late Sadapani Dissanayake
and sister in law of Kapila Perera, Sunil Dissanayake, Thusitha Gunatillake, Kumudini Gunatillake, Senani Senanayake.
The funeral service of Darshani will be live streamed on
Tuesday June 2nd, 2020 from 3pm – 4pm
Please find below the link to view Darshani's service
https://www.belindajanevideo.com/client-video/darshani-wickramasinghe/
To our darling Amma,
You are too precious to be forgotten,
And too priceless to be ever replaced.
You were one in a million, and you’ll always be
Our angel who loved us, cared for us and guided us throughout our life,
Even though you may not be here to hug or hold,
The warmth of your energy will never leave us.
The pain of you leaving was unbearable
But I know God saw that he was missing an angel
He put his arms around you and asked you to come back as your work was done on Earth
I’m sure Thaththi might have something to do with it
As both of you shared a love so rare there are no words to explain the bond between you two.
You were the sunlight in our family
You were the tree we all leant on
You were the apple of my father’s eyes
You made us feel safe no matter what troubles were there
You baked us cakes, made us fried rice in the morning, walked us to school, helped Thaththa throw parties every weekend
You taught us right from wrong and instilled us with good values
You always put our needs ahead of yours and unconditionally loved us
You made sure we were never hungry and also anyone who visited our home left with a full stomach
You complimented Thaththi in so many ways to ensure every house we lived in was a warm home full of beautiful memories.
This is not goodbye
We know your energy will continue to be all around us showering endless, unconditional love
You are free now Ammi to be the vibrant, adventurous energy you are; who was a champion sportswoman, adventurous & deep lover, caring mother and one of the most loved people in her family who all called you “nanga”
Even though you are out of sight,
We will always look up at the sky and know you will always be there high up in the clouds for Pinky and I
You will live forever in our hearts & we will love you, cherish you and remember you always.
We miss you Ammi
53 Tributes
Rochelle Melder
May fond memories of your Beloved mother bring you comfort during this hard time in your life. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.God bless you both Varuna and Tilini . May her soul Rest In Peace🙏🏻
Jey and Vasu
So sorry for your insurmountable loss Varuna. A Mother is someone we can never replace. As we grow old and hopefully wise, I know my day of mourning is also approaching. We never want this day to come. I send you and your family, our sincere condolences. May the universe give you the strength to forge ahead in your loving mother’s memory. Much love, Jey and Vasu.
Varuna Gunatillake
From the day I opened my eyes in this world, you held my hand, lifted me, nurtured me, taught me good from the bad, and made us into the people we are today amma.
Thaththa, pinky, and I never gave up on each other and we continue to hold your hand through this difficult time. Your energy, I will never forget as it was the warmest energy in the world and where i felt safe, happy no matter what I was going through.
I will forever hold onto your energy amma as our bond will never break ammi. You always taught me to be understanding, loving, caring, live a life that doesn’t hurt anyone and most of all see the good in everyone.
I don’t have words to explain what you mean to me amma. I’m having so many feelings I don’t know how to express at the moment. Love you always and unconditionally as you did throughout our life.
I hope I can be as half as good as the person you are amma.
You are free now Ammi to be the vibrant, adventurous energy you are; who was a champion sportswoman, adventurous & deep lover, caring mother and one of the most loved people in her family who all called you “nanga”
Even though you are out of sight.
We will always look up at the sky and know you will always be there high up in the clouds for Pinky and I
You will live forever in our hearts & we will love you, cherish you and remember you always.
Raaju Parameswaran
We will always remember Dharshini Aunty for her peacefulness and humble way of being. God Bless her soul forever. She will surely attain eternal bliss.
Rest In Peace
Our love and prayers are with you and Pinky always.
Raaju, Priya and Family.
Samuel Rajadurai
Our deepest condolences Varuna and Pinky. Very sorry to hear. Praying for you and your family. May she rest in peace.
Love Sam and Karina
Lalin and Ianthi Gunawardana
Deepest sympathies may her soul Rest In Peace.
Ianthi and Lalin Gunawardana
Sujanthan & Rajina
Our prayers and deepest sympathies are with you always Varuna and Pinky. May her soul attain the supreme bliss of nibbana and may God bless and comfort you.
Sujan & Rajina
Sornalingam Ganeshalingam
Our Deepest sympathies
” Rest in Pease” Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this moment.
Ganeshalingam Family
Ash, Nikkie and Tesh
We will miss you Darshani Nanda, thank you for taking care of Aiya, Bumby and I and treating us like your own. May your beautiful soul Rest In Peace.
Our prayers are with you Kuku Aiya, Pinky and Sumiko. Love you all very much xx
Isha Wedasinghe Miranda
Darshani wickramasinghe was most popular girl and outstanding athlete in the country in our time in school Anula Vidiyalaya and Sri Lanka track & feild. That name was is and will remember in our heart. May RIP.
Isuri Vidanapathirana
I can’t tell you how sorry I was to hear of your mother’s passing (Nanga Aunty).
We join in with everyone who knew your mom in wishing you peace and comfort as you face this very sad time. May you find peace and comfort in knowing that your grief is shared by so many.
Our prayers and deepest sympathies are with you always Kuku and Pinky. May her soul attain the supreme bliss of nibbana.
Chaminda, Isuri and Ranali
Theivayani
My Deepest Sympathy
My words cannot fully express the sorrow I feel after learning about the death of your beloved Amma. May you ever treasure the wonderful times you had with your Amma. Always our prayers are with you Varuna and Pinky.
Makindan and Theivayani
Ashan Dias
Dear Tilini & Varuna,
I always admired your amma’s caring and selfless nature. She was an amazing person to be around. I understand that a mother is with us always, first in her lifetime, then forever in our memory. Myself and Thilini are sending you love and prayers and hope you are able to find strength during this difficult time. I will always remember the moments i spent with your amma.
Ashan & Thilini
Uday kumar
Varuna a very big hug to you hope was there for you anyway life goes on whatever the restrictions are
Don’t think you are alone you have been guided and loved so much whom you are missing today
Thinking of you and family in this difficult times
Mums blessings be with you and family at all times
Uncle
Kelum
Dearest Akki. I got to know you when I was 14 years old. You walked in as my cousin’s new bride and I can remember me being in awe of your beauty and elegant approach. Then I tasted your yummy food and cakes and knew that you are not only beautiful but also very capable. I saw you bringing up 2 beautiful and kind kids who are now 2 responsible human biengs. You loved your family . Now you are ready to take the next adventure. Enjoy and have a peaceful time!
Love from Panchi and family
Asanthi Gunatillaka
TO DEAREST DARSHI AKKA,
UNTIL WE MEET YOU AND AIYA AGAIN
THOSE SPECIAL MEMORIES OF YOU AND AIYA WILL ALWAYS BRING A SMILE
IF ONLY WE COULD HAVE YOU BOTH BACK FOR JUST A LITTLE WHILE
THEN WE COULD SIT AND TALK AGAIN
JUST LIKE WE USED TODO
YOU AND AIYA ALWAYS MEANT US SO VERY MUCH AND ALWAYS WILL TO DO TOO
BUT YOU”RE FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS AKKA UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.
HOPE YOU ARE IN BETTER PLACE WITHOUT SUFFERING
ROSY (ASANTHI) NANGI AND NIMAL MALLIE
Nunna nanda
Darshani will forever be remembered as a loving wife to Mahinda Aiya and mother to both Varuna and Pinky. Her kind and humble presence will be missed by all of us. May she attain the supreme bliss of Nirvana. Deepest sympathies for your loss, with love from Nunna nanda, Daya Mamma, Thanuka, Rob and Sachie xxx
Piyumi Balasuriya
You are in my thoughts (Varuna & Tilini) during this difficult time. Please accept my sympathies. May her soul attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana!
Piyumi
You are in my thoughts (Varuna & Tilini) during this difficult time. Please accept my sympathies. May her soul attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana!
Kanthi and Nimal
Dear Darshi
You touched so many lives for the good. We feel so lucky that we got to know you, Mahinda, Varuna and Pinky.
You will be greatly missed but your warmth kindness and friendship will be remembered for ever.
We are there for Varuna and Pinky whenever they need.
May your soul attain the supreme bliss of nibbana
Kumudu Ratnayake
Dharshi, it is so hard to accept that you left early. The life is mortal, one day we all have to leave this world. Loving memories of our friendship are treasured in our hearts forever. May you attain supreme bless of Nirvana.
Varuna putha and Pinky duwa, you are the two beautiful soles your Ammi left in this world. May the triple gem bless you to have the courage and strength to move on with your life. Our prayers are with you. Budusaranai.
Uncle Upul & Aunty Amalka
Our heart and thoughts are with you during this time of grieving . Please know that we are mourning with you the loss of Darshi who was a very dear friend. We find comfort in the knowledge that her kindness, compassion and spirit will live on through Varuna and Pinky.
Please know that you are not alone in remembering a truly wonderful person that meant so much to us.
Darshi and Mahinda we are so proud of you two for bringing up two lovely responsible kids.
May Darshi attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana!
Kanthi and Nimal
Dear Darshi
You touched so many lives for the good. We feel so lucky that we got to know you, Mahinda, Varuna and Pinky. You will be greatly missed but your warmth kindness and friendship will be remembered for ever.
We are there for Varuna and Pinky whenever they need.
May your soul attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana
Jayani
We were truly sorry to hear the loss of Aunty Darshani. Our heartfelt condolences to Pinki, Varuna and family. Aunty Darshani was an amazing person and we will sadly miss her beautiful smile, her loving, caring and selfless nature! She was a very special mother to you both and she will be with you always! Mothers love is unconditional and losing someone like that is never easy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May she attain the supreme bliss of Nibbhana! With love Dayananda Gunatilleke and family, Jayani, Sanka and Arushi
Ashan Dias
Dear Pinky & Varuna,
I always admired your amma’s caring and selfless nature. She was an amazing person to be around. I understand that a mother is with us always, first in her lifetime, then forever in our memory. Myself and Thilini are sending you love and prayers and hope you are able to find strength during this dark time. I will always remember the moments i spent with your amma.
Ashan & Thilini
Sunil Dissanayake
Daearest Nanga,
You were a courageous lady and bore your ill health with a lot of fortitude and continued to care and look after your family with great care and affection.
You were a loving and caring wife to your husband and an exceptional mother to your two children – Varuna and Pinky of whom you were always proud of their significant achievements both academically and in their chosen careers.
You were the youngest of the three children in my late wife Sandapani’s family and you were part of a well knitted family.
With your migration to New Zeland with the family in 1994 and subsequently to Australia we did not see you often but kept in touch. My last memory you was in 2017 when you visited us in Sri Lanka.
May your soul rest in peace Nanga. Sunil Ayiah and Sasala Duwa
Sanjaya Lathpandura
My darling Nanga Akka,
I am not really good at these farewell things, and I really didn’t know what to write. But here’s an attempt reminiscing about our times together.
I got to really know you whilst living in Melbourne even though we were first cousins. Every time I visited your house you never let me leave without your hospitality. I remember how you used to feed both Pinky and Varuna on the run before they left for uni or work. We used sit at the dining table by the window and you would recall stories from your childhood growing up. You were so very fond of your cousins, they were your world. I was one of the youngest in our families so I didn’t know many things about my older siblings and my cousins. I would sit with you for hours at times just listening and chatting. You were a great storyteller about our families and I remember vividly how you used to always recall specific interactions with my father, mother and my siblings. You would always ask me about each and every one of my siblings and how they were doing. At times we would call my sister Nelum and have a few laughs on speaker phone.
I would make these silly jokes and you would laugh. Mahinda Aiya hears the commotion and wakes up and we all have a good laugh. After Nanga Akka’s hospitality then Mahinda Aiya starts the process of trying to feed me again 😂😂. We have a few more cups of tea, more sweets, and hours flew by. You would tell me about my childhood and about the times when we visited your ancestral home in Nugegoda. You would fill me in with all the details of your recent trips to Sri Lanka and the precious moments you spent with our cousins travelling around the country. Your eyes were glowing your face was beautiful and full of smiles every time we spoke about family. Then Mahinda Aiya would play the recordings from the trips. When I wanted to leave you always asked me to stay a little longer. As I walked out the door you would say “Malli ayey enna honday. Call karanna oney ney enna. Ikmanata enna”
Great times. Quality times. Relaxing times. Times I won’t have with you again but they are etched in my fondest memories of you. Thank you so much for being so warm, sincere, benevolent, so loving. My world was just that much sweeter and better having you around. So long Nanga Akka….”Ayeth enna api langatama apiwa balanna”
With love Sanjaya Malli
Aniccā vata saṅkhārā
Uppāda vaya dhamminō
Uuppajjitvā nirujjhanti
Tesaṃ vūpa samō sukhō
(Mahā Parinibbāna Sutta)
Harinda Weerasinghe
Dearest Pinki & Varuna
Our deepest condolence on demise of your mom Nanga akka.
May her soul attain supreme bliss of nibbana.
May you have strength & courage during this difficult time.
Our thoughts are with you.
Harinda mama & Neetha nanda
Harinda Weerasinghe
Dearest Pinki & Varuna
Our deepest condolence on demise of you mom Nanga akka.
May her soul attain supreme bliss of Nibbana.
May you have the strength & courage during these difficult days.
Our thoughts are with you.
Harinda mama & Neetha nanda
Randolph Morrison
Varuna & Tilini, please accept our deepest sympathies and may your dear Mum rest in peace.
Hansani illapperuma
My dearest Nanga nanda, You will be missed forever and always. The beautiful moments you shared with us will always speak of a great person that you were. Rest in peace !!! Our prayers are with you kukoo aiya , pinky and sumiko !! Stay strong !! Love you all so much …
Neil Phillips
Our deepest sympathies to yourself and Pinkie V! I know that you were always a devoted son but she had every reason to be a very proud mother. Hang onto your happy thoughts and may she Rest forever In Peace
Neil & Beverley
Jalitha Perera
Dear Nanga puppa, Being my mother’s younger sister, we alway recognised you as fun, adventurous and caring aunt. You always makesure our stomaches are full including my foodie two brothers, whenever we visited kandewatta.
You will be missed and may you attain supreme bliss of nibbana.
Jalitha Putha
Nimal
Dear Darshi,
We missed you and Mahinda.
We met you/family at Hamilton and had a good time. We realised that you all are very nice people with good human values.
It was unfortunate that we could not meet regularly in Melbourne.
Damma teaches us that life is uncertain and short. We all have to follow that rule
We are sure that you will attain the Supreme Nibbana.
Dear Pinkey and Varuna putha
Nimal uncle and Tilaka auntee/ Isuri and Saha
Neetha Ranasinghe
Dear Daughter,
Accept my deepest condolence, May the Triple Gem Bless bless for her!
Teruwan saranai !
Anty Neetha with Madara Rajith Indu
Lalin and Ianthi Gunawardana
Deepest sympathies may her soul Rest In Peace.
Ianthi and Lalin Gunawardana
Charles Davis
Varuna and Tilini,
Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time, our deepest sympathies. May she be at peace with your father in heaven. Charlie, Angele and Frederick.
Ushi
Nanda thank you for being a mother to us. Being the naughty mischievous kids we were, thank you for looking after us. We love you and miss you, may God keep you in his arms till we are all reunited.
Amtutha
Varuna and Pinky,
Sending our deepest condolences, love and prayers to you both during this extremely difficult time. What a beautiful woman your mother was and is to this day. Will always remember her gorgeous smile. Such a sweet Aunty.
Stay strong you two 💗
Amtutha, Daniel and family xo
Kanthi and Nagitha
Our deepest sympathies Varuna and Pinky.
Jerome
Dear Pinky & Varuna
Please accept our deepest sympathies we all know that your mother was a very kind and special person. May her soul Rest In Peace.
Jerome & Nilmini
Sherisse, Christian, Kian and Peter
Dearest Varuna and Tilini,
Our deepest sympathies goes out to both of you during this time. Thank you for allowing us to share and celebrate your incredible mother with you in this way.
We pray she may rest in peaceful joy and for your both of you to be filled with strength and love.
Sending your family all our love.
Maria Maiorino
RIP beautiful Darshani
You will be missed. My deepest condolences to Tilini, Varuna and family.
Thinking of you all
Maria
IBNH
Nishkala yoganandan
Dear Pinky and Varuna,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
We fondly remember Dharshi for her hospitality and generosity when we stayed at her Nugegoda residence.
We know she will be missed by many.
We are keeping you in our thoughts at this difficult time.
Tanya De Silva
Dear Varuna. I’m a friend of your mom from Anula. I was so saddened today to hear about her passing. My deepest condolences to you and your siblings. Stay strong putha. Your mother was a super woman. The best runner we had in our school. May Dharshani attain the supreme bliss of Nirvana. Stay blessed and safe. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Dasun
My thoughts are with you and Pinky ❤ I will always have Aunty in my heart for taking care of me as a toddler in our first years in New Zealand while my amma and thatha were studying. Both her and Uncle hold a special place within my family as I am sure they do amongst many other families for whom they have gone out of their way to care for. Immigrating to a new country is very difficult but your parents compassion made it so much easier for those who came, despite themselves also being recent immigrants. With parents like them, it’s no surprise to me how Tilini and yourself have grown to become such strong and caring people as well. I’m so glad I was able to visit Aunty during my last trip to Melbourne
Aravinda
So sad to hear this Varuna. Your parents were both the most humble, generous and the kindest uncle and aunty I knew. I still remember when I first started school in NZ, I stayed with you guys in Greenlane. Your dad and mum both helped me so much at that time. I know they are both in a good place. May aunty attain supreme bliss of Nibbana.
Naomi
Aunty is such a beautiful person inside and out. I still have great memories of her although it has now been a long time since I’ve seen her. I remember her as such a vivacious and kind hearted person. Thinking of you all ❤️
Mahinda and Sujatha Attanayake
Dear Varuna and Pinky,
Please accept our deepest sympathies. We remember very well the day she came to Auckland from Hamilton in the helicopter. She was a very kind and brave person. Our thoughts are always with you.
Aunty Sujatha and Uncle Mahinda Attanayake
Jeannie Meek
Lovely service. R.I.P beautiful Nanga.🙏🏼
Samarawickrema
Darshi and Mahinda – two lives lost far too early. While we mourn their loss, we think of both of you, Varuna and Pinky as a testament to the wonderful, caring people your parents were. We are sorry the restrictions prevented us from attending the service in person, but our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you. May you draw solace and courage from the love Darshi and Mahinda showered on both of you. Our deepest sympathies to Pinky, Varuna and Sumiko,.
Sally, Willie,
Nimmi and Gayani Samarawickrema
Barathi and Gaspar Rudolph
Pinky and Varuna
Our deepest condolences at the loss of your beautiful darling Ammi . Our prayers and thoughts are with you both at this extremely sad and difficult time . Uncle Gasper aunty Barathi, sacha and Aunty Zoe
Peiris family
Dear Pinky and Varuna,
Our deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved mum. May she Rest In Peace and attain the supreme bliss of Nirvana.
Peiris family